Nice guys always loss

[Demontang]

Well guys I learned something last night. If you don't know I've been fighting with my ex or the divorce since last April. Well in June I ran across a old high school friend and started to see her and I stuck my heart there to have it ripped out and well just flat torn up. I've had that feeling that she has cheated and last night it was confirmed. She is sending pics and talking to a guy she works with. I'm really at a loss here I've been nothing but good and done everything can to make her happy but here I'm. I don't know if I should stay or go, she said they never did anything. I just don't know ever girl I've see in my adult life has done this kind of thing to me. I've been up all night and sick.

[91stang308]

man that sucks, sorry to hear that......If she hasnt done anything then i dont know i might stick it out but then again you cant really trust her, its your call man, i just hope everything works out for ya.

[hotwheels]

that sucks bro and i have to tell ya (just my opinion), if you feel in your gut she is cheating, she is....If you can, i would highly recommend moving on before you end up in a spot that makes it to hard to get out. There are a bunch of beautiful people out there......

[Demontang]

Yeah it hurt. I really thought that she would never do anything remotely like this since she had been cheated on for a long time and never cheated when that went on. I'm at a place I really don't know anyone. My ex chased my friends off and now this. I was told I shouldn't set my heart out and that i will find the right person.

[BaddBullitt]

I agree with hotwheels on this my friend... Once the trust has been broken it almost everytime NEVER comes back.. Take it from me, i've been there, done that.
I might be a little jaded over it, but you need top forget her and move on.. The faster you move on the faster you'll get over her.. I know you still love her and letting go someone you love is the hardest thing you may ever do, in the long run, it's well worth it in the end. Don't let her know he broke you dude!!
Get your frustrations and sorrorws out NOW, don't dwel, there's too many women out there to have ONE screw up your head..
If your on facebook, get on the " are you interested " app or zoosk cause it's a meat market of women and it's like shooting fish in a barrell. TRUST ME!!!!!
When I was single I couldn't find it any easier!!!!
Go out with the boyz, have some laughs and some drinks and above all GET FREAKIN LAID!!!!!!! It will make a world of difference, and who knows you might end up finding the one who won't screw you over..
Sorry for my rant but I have a PHD in the matters of the heart.. And I used to be a musician so I "saw" ALOT of women..lol..Most of whom are whores but theres alot out there who are genuine and trustworthy..
I know things will get better so keep your chin up and your willy at the ready

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Oh and as for your "friend" A real friend wouldn't do that to you bro!!!!!
A real friend would have respect for you and would know the code!!!
Ok i'm done now..lol

[hotwheels]

Well said baddbullitt.......

[Demontang]

Man it's just so god damn hard. I need to sleep and clear my head.

[hotwheels]

Sleep will do ya some good man............

[BaddBullitt]

So will some scotch!!!! It gets better.. OR take the Stang out for a boot, windows down, tunes blaring!!!! I always feel better driving my Bullitt.. It's like nothing else in the world matters.. Just being one with your car.. Man I'm wierd..lol..

[Intmdtr]

Dude, its better to just move on. Because you always wonder, every time she walks out to go shopping or something else, if thats what she is really doing? I went through that for 6 months before i kicked my ex wife out....Bingo wasn't really Bingo.....And i have moved on and been much happier and found someone who really is into me and loves me.

As your friends here, we can only stand by the decision you choose to make and be there for you if it isn't the right one.

There are plenty of fish in the sea my friend, and there is that one that really wants to nibble on your worm.